SORAN, Iraq — Maryam Nuri had by no means been on a airplane earlier than she boarded a flight from Iraq in early November with a visa from Italy. She had by no means seen the ocean earlier than she set out on a flimsy boat from France into the English Channel final week.
“She knew only small rivers here,” mentioned her cousin, Iman Hassan, at Ms. Nuri’s household house on this mountain city within the Kurdistan Region of Iraq. “We don’t even know what big waves are.”
Ms. Nuri, identified to her family and friends as Baran, drowned together with 26 different folks Wednesday when a flimsy inflatable boat she was on with different migrants sank within the treacherous and frigid waters of the English Channel.
The 24-year-old lady had been attempting to succeed in Britain to affix her fiancé, a Kurdish Iraqi who has been dwelling in England for the previous 14 years.
On Saturday, Ms. Hassan, her cousin, spoke within the kitchen of the Nuri household house whereas Ms. Nuri’s mom, sisters and feminine family sobbed in the lounge — the identical room the place Ms. Nuri celebrated her engagement in January. “She was supposed to be a new bride,” considered one of her seven sisters cried, beating her chest in anguish.
Ms. Hassan and Ms. Nuri have been the identical age and had been greatest associates since childhood. When Ms. Nouri and her fiancé, Karzan Assad, have been courting throughout considered one of his journeys house, Ms. Hassan was their chaperone.
“They would come to my house when they had a date and they would talk,” she mentioned. “They were in love, like Romeo and Juliet.”
Mr. Assad, 41, is a barber who lives in Portsmouth, England, based on his household, and Ms. Nuri dreamed of becoming a member of him there and opening her personal hair and nail salon.
Ms. Hassan, an engineering scholar, works half time in a flower store within the Kurdish capital Erbil, town from which Ms. Nuri left by airplane to start her fateful journey, a two-hour drive from her hometown, Soran. On Valentine’s Day, she mentioned, Mr. Assad visited, and purchased an armful of roses to take to Ms. Nuri.
Ms. Nuri completed highschool however didn’t go on to school. In late October, Ms. Nuri known as her greatest good friend and advised her to come back to her home, the place she advised her she was prepared to affix Mr. Assad in England and would go away quickly.
“She told me, ‘Don’t worry, I’m going the safest way,’” and mentioned she would keep away from the ocean crossing, Ms. Hassan mentioned.
Mr. Assad had procured an Italian-issued vacationer visa that allowed Ms. Nuri to journey to the European Union, paying $20,000 to somebody from outdoors the Italian consulate, based on Mr. Assad’s brother, Nihad.
“Some people in Erbil get visas — they are just like smugglers,” mentioned Nihad Assad, who’s a butcher in Erbil, referring to the folks promoting visas within the metropolis.
The Italian consul couldn’t be reached for remark.
Ms. Nuri’s uncle, the daddy of Ms. Hassan, labored on the airport in Erbil and talked her by how one can discover boarding gates and seat numbers on the airplane. Ms. Nuri spoke Turkish however no English, and Ms. Nuri tried to show her a couple of phrases.
She traveled to Turkey, after which to Italy, Germany and France. But she had been twice rejected for a visa to Britain that might enable her to affix her fiancé, and when she acquired to France she discovered herself caught. Making issues worse, the uncle who took care of her on the airport, died of a coronary heart assault as she transited by Europe.
“In my opinion she got tired and she was grieving alone there for her uncle — my dad,” mentioned Ms. Hassan. She mentioned her cousin was determined to be reunited together with her fiancé.
She met up in Germany with the spouse of an Iraqi good friend of her fiancé who was additionally attempting to get to England, her family mentioned. Later, in France, the couple “told her, ‘It’s just a few hours, why don’t you come with us?’ on the channel crossing, and she agreed, Ms. Hassan said. Migrants who made the crossing that same day said the boats were charging more than $3,000 per passenger.
“When she was in Germany I told her: ‘Don’t take the inflatable boat,’” mentioned Mr. Assad, her fiancé’s brother, who mentioned he noticed her off on the airport in Erbil. “She told me: ‘Even if I have to swim, I have to reach Karzan.’ She was very much in love with him.”
Mr. Assad has a screenshot of a map and site pin Ms. Nuri despatched from the boat when it was in the course of the channel. She known as her fiancé, saying it was taking up water and that they have been attempting to bail it out with pots. She mentioned they have been ready for the coast guard for assist.
But the rescue by no means occurred, and Ms. Nuri drowned together with the spouse of her fiancé’s good friend. Her husband, who was in a second boat that turned again when the primary one started sinking, survived to determine each their our bodies in hospital.
Ms. Nuri’s dying has devastated her close-knit household of seven sisters and a brother.
“My sister was adorable,” mentioned her brother, Mohammad Nuri, 21. “Anyone who met her even once never forgot her because she had a very kind heart.”
In England, a good friend who answered Mr. Assad’s cellphone mentioned he had been taken to hospital from the shock of shedding the girl he cherished.
The tragedy is simply one of many many hardships confronted by Iraqi Kurds after they broke away from Saddam Hussein’s management in 1991, due to the efforts of their Pesh Merga fighters and with the assistance of U.S.-led air help. For a long time, Kurds from Iraq and three surrounding nations have fled persecution and settled in Europe. The 50 million Kurds unfold throughout contiguous territory within the Middle East and Turkey are often called the world’s largest ethnic group and not using a state.
As family got here to mourn with Ms. Nuri’s household on Saturday, her father, Nuri Mohammad, 67, a retired Pesh Merga fighter, stood ramrod straight on the entrance of the road to greet them.
“I want other countries to give a little bit of respect to the Kurds,” mentioned Mr. Mohammad, in between accepting condolences. “I ask the world, especially the United States, not to block the path for our young people — don’t leave them to the hands of traitors and killers and mafias.”
Kurdish officers mentioned the Kurdish and Iraqi authorities have been attempting to retrieve all of the our bodies of Iraqis who died Wednesday to ship them again for burial.
“We just want her body to come and rest in peace with our family,” mentioned Ms. Hassan, Ms. Nuri’s cousin.
Sangar Khaleel contributed reporting from Soran.